Relationship Patterns and Programs
I must give up my Personal Power
Fear of desertion
I am not good enough for him/her
Fear of survival
Why can't he/she see me,trust me,LOVE me,care for me
Need to be Independent
Fear of communication /fear of facing emotions/reality
Fear of being misunderstood
Fear of confrontations
Fear he/she will learn my secrets
Fear of losing self-identity
Need to protect
Fear of sharing/ not getting my share
Need to be LOVEd /need for affection
Fear of losing authority/manipulation through money or sex
Need to be protected/security
Fear of losing control
Family flows and patterns
Financial patterns
Different perspectives/goals
Need to be apart
Need to be together
Sexual conflicts
Emotional blocks
Anger
Old patterns of Interaction
Old LOVEs
Need to own and control
Expectations of in-laws
Need to control sexually
Expectations based on patterns
Boredom
Loss of respect
Need for excitement/change
Jealousy,
Fear of emotion
Projecting faults
Negative memories
Fantasies
His/her family doesn't like me
I don't deserve what I have;
others want to use me for my money;
contempt for people who have less.