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Childhood Negative Thought Patterns
Family
Social
Financial

When you begin the process of clearing or altering your psychological and personality makeup, the first thing that is required is a change in how you perceive yourself. We accept ourselves as we are and accept our consciousness as being such a natural and normal pant of us that we do not concern ourselves with how it functions, or bother to understand what creates our reality.

We are like a dictionary. When the cover is closed, all you see is the outer shell, or form, of the book. But within the dictionary are hundreds or thousands of bits of information, which, when accessed, deliver the true reality of the dictionary. We are exactly the same thing.

Our expression, or the information that is delivered to the holograms which create our façade (this present life personality; Native Americans believe that the spirit world is the only real world and the one we are in is an illusion ) , comes from a vast internal storehouse of information which we have gleaned from all our sources of information. We have within ourselves the potential of expressing everything possible in the human experience. The potentials that are turned on, or tuned In, by experience, patterning, or programming (things we’ve been taught by parents, teachers, society, ect.), become our personality and character traits. These traits can be expressed either positively or negatively. For example, expressing LOVE Is the opposite of expressing fear.

When you clear negative thoughtforms (patterning) from your subconscious, it allows the positive to express. As you clear your negatives (negits), your behavioral patterns will slowly change to the positive. Be patient, be diligent, and above all don't expect an instant miracle. It took all these years to create what you are and it will take a lot of time and effort to create what you would rather be.

In this lesson we are presenting extensive lists of Negits as a guide to help you with your own Clearing. They are not intended to limit you, and many may not apply to you, but if in doubt, call them up (part of releasing techniques I will teach you) to see if you can get an energy response. These Negits were gleaned from thousands of clearing sessions with clients, and we have observed a common pattern that affects most people. You will need to develop your own lists according to your needs by writing down very specific words and terms which relate to your experience. The categories below are rather general. Try to find the specific Word that fixes the vibration (feeling, energy: these words can bring up emotions. Often the energy can be felt in a part of the body when it is asked to come up and release) of the Negit. The less Words used, the better for clearing the vibration of the Negit.

Childhood

Intrauterine and early childhood Patterning

(Mothers and family fears, anxieties, stresses)

a. Family’s financial fears
        1.Never enough; lack
        2.fear of responsibility of money
        3.unworthy of having it easy.

b. Mothers and family's health problems
        1. Cancer runs in the family;
        2. hypochondria;
        3.diabetes; heart problems, etc.
        4. weight problems

c. Mother's and family's emotional problems
        1. Jealousy; anger; self anger, hate
        2. fear of persecution
        3.fear of
authority
        4.Not good enough

d. Mothers attitude toward men and your father
        1. Men use me; can't trust men;
        2.Fear of men; fear of desertion; 
        3.Anger at father for getting her pregnant; 
        4.I’m in bondage to men; home is man's castle

e. Mother’s self-perception/prejudices/emotions
        1.I’m not beautiful when I’m pregnant and fat;
        2.Sexual fears;
        3.Male-female competition;
        4.Women are victims; etc.
        5.Women don't know anything
        6. Women must put everyone before herself
        7.god, husband, children, church in that order

f. Family shocks, accidents, deaths
        1.Death of family member
        2.loss of home;
        3.moving trauma;
        4.illness; mental illness of self or someone In family;
        5.sexual abuse; physical\mental abuse; etc.

g. Patterns of instinctive fears, reactions, perceptions
        1.Ethnic patterns; religious patterns (for example, a Jewish baby is                 programmed to be Jewish in the womb.)
        2.Social influences such as World War II, The Great Depression, regional influences.( for example the south still has strong southern feelings)

Social. financial and abundance patterning in childhood

a. Family poverty consciousness
            1. Unworthy of abundance;
            2. Can’t be better than others in family;
            3. Fear of family criticism for being different;
            4. Rich people are bad people;
            5. no hope; it can't be easy; I have to work hard for what I get, 

b. Family and class prejudices
            1. I’m "poor white trash";
            2. whites are better than blacks; blacks are better than whites;
            3. family class pride;
            4.contempt for people in ethnic groups other than your own.

c. Fear of moving outside your class level or peers
            1. I can only be a truck driver, laborer, housewife, school teacher

d. Problems associated with being wealthy
            1. I don’t deserve what I have;
            2. others want to use me for my money, phoney friends
            3. contempt for people who have less.

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